Meandering Forward

As I drove from Indianapolis back to my home in Nashville, Tennessee, I found myself reflecting on the concept of progress while listening to various podcasts. One particular saying from James Clear, the author of *Atomic Habits*, caught my attention: "I get 1% better every day." While I appreciate the sentiment, the idea of improving by just 1% daily can sometimes feel overly linear and, at times, unattainable. This led me to a realization: my own path is more akin to a meandering river, slowly progressing toward a goal.

This notion of "meandering forward" is especially relevant in our roles as coaches. We aim to foster growth in our athletes, but the journey is rarely straightforward. Working with two teams, comprising 30 to 50 athletes each, I saw firsthand how progress varies. Like a river with sections that flow at different speeds, our teams move forward at their own pace. This dynamic allows us to meet athletes where they are, guiding them through their unique paths.

I also listened to a podcast featuring Jay Carter and Alex Lasky, where Alex discussed diverse coaching strategies and real-time problem-solving. This resonated with my own coaching philosophy. I envision where I want the team to go over the year, but sometimes that vision shifts. Much like a river that takes unexpected turns and sometimes bursts its banks, our journey may lead us through tributaries, confluences, or even rapids. At times, we might find ourselves needing to backtrack, which can still be a form of progress.

Even when it feels like we're moving backward, these moments can be pivotal. They offer opportunities for reflection and intentional decision-making, leading to increased awareness and adjustments in our approach. This process, though non-linear, always moves us toward our ultimate goal of connection and progress.

Throughout the season, we build a unique identity for our team. While the individuals may remain largely the same, the outcomes of our time together can vary significantly. The concept of meandering forward captures the joy in the journey and the process. It encompasses the daily, ordinary activities that become integral to our memories, fostering inside jokes and deeper connections.

As we continue to meander forward, let's embrace the journey and the growth it brings, both on and off the field.